10 Things I Learned in my Three Years of College
August 12, 2018
taken during the Thomasian Welcome Walk 2015
1. 24 hours a day and seven days a week is never enough when you enter college. Academic work, unfortunately, requires a lot of our personal time. Worse, it sometimes asks for our weekends, too— the only family and leisure time we can relish— just to meet our deadlines. It can really be overwhelming but you just have to know how to manage your time wisely and properly so you can get things done promptly, and still have more days for yourself, family, and friends.
TIP: Keep a journal. Make it a diary-planner. It helps B I G T I M E that you get to track the things you have to accomplish. Plan your weekly agenda thoroughly. Schedule it out. Write down important dates— trust me, you will be reminded constantly of your deadlines if you see them written down or posted in one corner of your study area. Your planner can be your step one to not cram and procrastinate everything.
Also, make this an account of your college experiences. Write about the event you attended. Spill out what happened at last night's affair. Or bullet down the good things about your day. It is nice that you have fun, memorable moments to look back to during the times college gets stressful and less enjoyable. You will be glad when you try to flip a few pages back and read about the little details from last month. It comes handy!
2. Set your priorities straight. It is exhilarating knowing you are on your own now, living the city life at its best, and enjoying the youth that is you. However, the fact still remains that you are in the university for a reason. Your studies is still your topmost priority for now. Learn to say "no" to late night hangouts when you have exams the following day. Read your books if you must. Review your lessons if you should. Make sure you have accomplished everything that is required to be finished before you decide to do things outside academics. There is always time for your leisure, anyway.
TIP: If you are aiming for that Laude medal just like I am, I say, you should not overlook the first semesters of your college years. First year college counts a lot! Start persevering and working hard right N O W !
Also, one thing I practice since first year college that had basically saved me almost every semester is to exert my 100% effort during the prelim period. I endure the busy days, sleepless nights, and hard work as early as the first months of the semester to achieve my target grades. If you have an excellent foundation, trust me, there is no way you would fail. You will know it when your grades are already enough to reach your goal GWA, and that is when you can be a little chill and less stressed come final period.
3. Unwind. College can be really, really stressful. The amount of class work you have can sometimes be unbelievable and inhumane. But, do not let the academic stress devour you alive. Loosen up! Treat yourself, relax, and take care of your mental health! Studying will not feel like a burden if you don't put too much pressure on your head and still allow yourself to do the things you love doing. Catch-up with old friends once in a while. Eat good food. Get your nails done. Pamper yourself. Binge-watch your favorite series. Schedule a Friday night hangout with your block. Drink a lot, stay out late, and have a fun, solid night with them! Unwind— BUT do not go overboard. 4. Learn to budget. It can be overwhelming handling a huge amount of money for the first time. There is nothing wrong spending all of it for your needs, but to splurge on your wants massively can be a problem. Don't spend your one week of allowance for three days only. You can't borrow money from friends all the time and be in debt your whole life. Do a little math, and be thrifty. Avoid overspending. Your little savings can be beneficial for emergency purposes. Also, the upside, you can plan a trip or schedule a shopping spree with your best friend knowing you have saved a good amount of money.
TIP: Try the 50-peso challenge that went viral online!
5. You can survive with only two or three friends in your circle. Trust me, you only need the truest, most understanding, and most honest support system to get through every single day of your college life. And if it means having only a few ones, you are still good to go! Choose very well the people you are going to include in your clique. The university life is already challenging enough; you need no more toxic individuals to add up to the struggles. We only want the people who will help us grow as a person— friends who will be extra patient with our shortcomings; friends who will be with us during unnecessary mental breakdowns; friends who will be there through our ups and downs; and friends who will support us with our dreams and aspirations.6. It is okay to do things alone. There would be days when friends are not readily available to help you finish some tasks, or just not free to simply go out with you. During these very rare moments, I tell you, there is nothing wrong doing all of it alone. Eat out alone. Study in the library alone. Get pampered alone. Workout alone. Enjoy the company of yourself. You will be surprised at how, during most times, isolating yourself from the world and doing things by yourself is actually a lot more convenient than you thought it would be. Sometimes, all you need is a good and satisfying "me" time to achieve that inner peace.
7. High school friends will always breathe a new life into our sometimes humdrum college cycle. Do I really have to say more? When it gets too exhausting and highly draining, it would be really great to have your high school friends to run back to. Quite frankly, it is during the few, rare days we get to catch-up with these very people that we become kids again who care less about the world.
TIP: A perfect year-ender is with your best set of high school friends! You will realize how a lot have happened and how so much has changed, yet you remain to be the solid people you know from way back.
8. Explore and create connections. Sometimes, our passions and best interests cannot be fully developed by merely staying in the four corners of our classroom. Go out. Find the organization that fosters growth and showers you multiple opportunities of a lifetime. It's true when they say that the best learning experiences are almost always provided by these local and university-wide organizations. Also, you get to meet other people outside your block who have the same drive as you. If you are lucky, they can become family to you, too.
TIP: If you are from UST, check out TOMCAT and Tiger Media Network! THE. FREAKING. BEST! Both bring out the best of your abilities and make you competent individuals when it comes to events production and media broadcasting. *wink wink*
9. College is stepping out of your comfort zone. It is during college when we outgrow those childish habits and literally grow apart from people close to home. We become different people and grow into these more matured individuals who are now goal-driven. It might look scary at first, but then we realize that stepping out of our comfort zones is we getting closer and closer to our dreams.
10. Savour every moment of your college life. I am down to my last ten months in college and I would honestly just like to go back to my first year in the university. I was always in a rush to graduate but now that we are just counting months— days— I wished I had cherished more every moment from way back. I say, make the most of your stay in college. Aside from graduating with flying colors, personally, it is important, too, that you make memories you will treasure for the rest of your life. It may be exhausting and draining at most times, but don't let it get to you. College will, undeniably and without a doubt, still give you some of the best days of your life. With the freedom and all, you are sure in for a crazy, wild, fun, memorable ride— E N J O Y !
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